Thursday, August 8, 2013

Gathering at The Straits Wine Company

7th August 2013 (7pm):

This was a rather more straightforward gathering but not without some haggeration beforehand. Folks were deciding whether to meet on the 3rd or 7th as not all could make it on the same day. And Angela's schedule in Singapore was busy too.

In the end, I am glad she was able to make it on both days... and my, she was the same: voice, looks, hair fringe (haha).

This occasion at the wine company was more of a drinkers' get-together as Angela had indicated a preference for light spirits. Yesterday was the first day of the Chinese Ghost Month, so in a way, it was appropriate for the 'jiu gui' (wine devils) amongst us to meet and drink!

Please enjoy the photos. It was a pity the winery had to close at 11pm (not a public holiday so not closing at 12 midnight as would be the norm); otherwise, the night would have gone on much longer. Perhaps better as Lin Hiong was driving.

Link to video 1:
Link to video 2:

Again, grainy video due to brightening up by Youtube. The original video was quite dark due to the place. (But thankfully the camera had stereo audio recording. :-)

Gathering at TCC

3rd August 2013 (3pm):

Below are recent pics from our gathering at TCC cafe at Circular Road, Boat Quay. I decided to create this blog so pictures can be shared with our non-social media friends. One link to a blog and they can see what that has gone on.

Hopefully, they will find time to join in next time. :-)

After TCC, we walked down to South Bridge Road and settled at Hong Hock Eating House - an aircon kopitiam with zhichar and noodle footstalls including an Indian prata one. The weather outside was very warm and I feared Angela might melt and we had to peel her of the streets!

We had a light meal of good fried rice with chilli dishes of stingray, lala, and sh-chi tou (four season beans). The food here is average, and everyone was saving their stomachs for durian afterwards.

However, Ee Ming did not join us for durian and left. Nice of him to walk us to the kopitiam (which is just outside Chinatown opposite Mosque Street and nearest MRT was Chinatown. Really not a bad location to take a breather.)

During dinner, Siew Hong's mom had laksa. It was nice seeing Siam Peng savour her coconut with such gusto. I like coconut flesh also, so can understand her thrill! And I miss those fresh pieces (with brown 'skin' attached) that hawkers used to sell at Bugis market (sei mah lo - Four Carriage Way Road). Coconut pieces on tiered, small aluminum round trays with ice water flowing down.

Funny aside: After 'dinner' with Siew Gek, Lucy and Siam Peng bidding farewell (sad, I had thought they would join in the durian fest!) we wallked to Upper Cross Street for durian as advised by the zhichar lady owner. Turns out, the 24-hr durian uncle was no longer there. But the journey was funny how we detoured into OG's perfume section for some needed aircon cooling. Haha...

On the way back to Chinatown, Angela was tempted to buy durian from a seller by the escalator. I think she got tired of walking. But seeing no proper place to sit, I advised them to press on to the Chinatown market area; I knew there was a good durian seller there. My only reservation was that he would sell us durians at tourist prices. That old uncle at Upper Cross Street was much more reasonable with his prices.

Finally, we reached the durian stall. We were lucky it was not crowded and managed to secure some seats and tables. There was water coming down from some clothes from the flats above, so we moved to another part of the open space.

From the friendly durian seller, we first ordered the yellow Mao Shan Wang. We had about six big durians, They were yummilicious. But the better ones were come afterwards, what the uncle called Tai Yuan, white durian that's a little bitter, a little sweet but altogether with chunky flesh and very small seeds. They reminded me of very good durians during my childhood when yellow flesh ones were not as common. The seeds were amazingly kua-chi small!

Man, the seeds were really tiny or non-existent! 

We had 7-8 durians but Thin Leong ordered two more for Lin Hiong, who gamely joined us late.

In the end, we were so stuffed no one wanted to touch the last two durians!

All in all, a wonderful tea and durian outing the whole day! (From 3pm onwards). Most got to meet Bee Har, Siam Peng, Wee Hock, Mui Chow, Ee Ming for the first time. That's the thing with these gatherings: Some regular faces, a few new faces. But at least all got to be re-acquainted again after all these years! So, it means a lot for busy folks to drop in no matter what. :-)

See short video:

Wonderful! A big group turned up! 

The banter soon got underway. :-)

Eee Ming, Siam Peng and Bee Har

Mui Chow looking hip in her shorts.

Angela See: The Guess of Honor from UK.

Classmates with Siew Hong's (Jen) mother. Our stand-in Ms Leng. ;-)

Ee Ming, Kok Kiam, TC, Thin Leong, Wee Hock 

Wow, so many pretty girls: From Front L: Lucy, Siam Peng, Siew Gek, Bee Har.
Back row: Pritam, Adelene, Angela, Puay Hoon, Siew Hong.

Siam Peng enjoying her coconut. :-)

Hong Hock Eating House, 211-217 (opp Mosque Street). On route to durian feast.

Durian feast at side of Chinatown Complex Hawker Centre and Market.

Fantastic Maoshanwang and Taipor (white) durians! Fleshy and small seeds.

The stars of the night. Solid flavor durians!

Lin Hiong made it to join us!

Power ladies! (Powered by durians and camaraderie!) ;-)

The Durian Munching Gang.

Sunday, August 4, 2013

The Search For Lost School Mates

When I began this journey to find my lost school mates from Mattar Primary School some four/five years ago, I did not expect much success. After all, it has been more than 35 years since we last seen each other.

In my case, I have only photographic evidence of some school mates having visited me when I was in Pre-U 1, so, for me, that was pretty much the last time I've seen anyone from Mattar. Since then, my old schoolmates, have reminded me that I've been to a couple of 21st birthdays all of which I have no memory of, which is quite extraordinary given that i remember things quite well, even a visit to a longhouse in Sarawak when I was three+! Perhaps it is true. Younger memories are more 'impressive' and remained synapsed in our brains for eternity so to speak. We might forget where we last put our car keys, but hey, that lovely girl from kindergarten is still vivid in our minds.

In any case, there are two reasons for looking up my old school mates. One, I still keep a box of my childhood stuff from my Mattar Primary School. In that box are toys, art and craft stuff, a stamp album, autograph books, stickers, collectibles, etc. Over the years, when nostalgia hits, I would open the box and look inside. And wonder where all my playmates have disappeared to.

Reason No.2 is that I encountered some folks from the Singapore Memory Project and was encouraged to start sharing my memories from my past. Or at least log/blog them down somewhere. I had a rather unique childhood growing up in Geylang-Sims Avenue, so I thought I'd start from there.

So what I did was start a Growing Up In Geylang blog and began writing about my childhood in that neighbourhood. I also wrote about my friends from Mattar Primary School - same era - and about spending time with them especially in their homes in MacPherson Estate bounded by Circuit Road.

However, before SMP, I had already uploaded pictures of my stuff from that childhood memory box into Flickr account - a photo-sharing site. I was hoping my old classmates might see the stuff while surfing the Internet and contact me. One of them eventually did in 2011. By then, she was like the no.9 or 10 found. (At the time of writing, we had found 43/44, all in a span of 3-4 years!)

In any case, I signed up with Facebook hoping it would prove a good channel to connect with old friends. The think is, if you have a friend named Lucy Teo, there are hundreds of folks also named Lucy Teo. So which one is the correct one. And how about those with no profile pictures? And those who use their married names?

So, despite the common belief that FB is a godsend, it is not exactly a great channel to reconnect with old friends. It is after the fact (knowing that person's exact profile name) that it seems rather intuitive. My experience indicates that LinkedIn is a better place.

But FB was the place that connected me to my first school mate, Norien. Some juniors had started an MPS page and I had asked for information regarding my old school mates there. The juniors were about 13-15 years younger. But the photos they had still reflected the old Mattar I knew.

A dias I stood on in the field as a P6 kid leading the whole school through morning exercise was still there.

At the FB MPS group, many of its members were Malay and Norien was one. She was, however, also nostalgic but only a sometimes visitor to the Group. But Norien did read my comments or requests for information. Funnily, it took her a while to connect my initials TC to my real name. I use initials for my FB profile because that was my byline name when I was a popular trade journalist, so I had believed more folks would recognise me by my initials. Furthermore, I had joined FB to reconnect with old colleagues and work friends, not so much old old friends from childhood. - That would be extremely optimistic to think that my childhood friends would still recognise and remember me! The people we worked with in our 20s or later could recall us better!

So, it is quite amazing that in a span of 3-4 years, we were able to trace 43/44 childhood classmates!
It was not easy and the story behind that search will be told through this blog.


Below is the only school photo of us kids that dates back to 1972. We were all in P3 then.

Picture taken facing our school Mattar Pri Sch in the school field. Behind is Aljunied Pri Sch; at right (not in view) is another school called Mattar East Primary. Together we three schools shared this field, making it one super large school field to play Police & Thief with!

Then, our form teacher was a relief teacher by the name Ms Lim Siang Ngoh, whom we all adored. Unlike the majority of teachers there at MPS who liked to employ corporal punishment such slapping, caning, etc. - a common practice with teachers back then), Ms Lim did not. She would rather talk to or counsel us. To say she was like a breath of fresh air is rather an understatement. She was like an angel sent from heaven! And being the angel she was, she would even invite us to her home in Old Airport Road (those red brick flats by the hawker center) for a visit and to play. It was during one of these visits that I learned a particular way to cook fried rice from her. That dish was never the same for me afterwards! (See later story).

But how did we end up with a class photo then? It was not common practice with primary schools back then.

Over the years, I had harboured this thought that the class photo was Ms Lim's idea - a kind of farewell memento of her relief tenure, but she has since clarified that the idea was the school's. The principal then was a Mrs Victoria Pereira, assistant principal was a Mr Wilson. Our school was a two-session school then. I remember the other session assistant principal being called Tiger Lady, so fierce she was!

But with this photo, I also wondered why the school ever took only one picture of us. There were no other photo sessions from P4 to P6. At P6, we left after completing our PSLE exams and got posted out to our respective secondary schools.

So you can imagine how precious this photo is to me and my classmates. And how without it, the difficult task of finding old school mates would be made even worse.

For some of us, this school photo is ultra precious, it could be our only childhood picture! Some did lose theirs (and family albums) after shifting and moving homes many times over the decades.